While I’m not one who is much for making New Year’s resolutions, I do like to take some time during these few quiet days between Christmas and New Year’s Day to think about how I want things to BE in the new year, how I want ME to be, and how to make that happen. What do I need (or want) to do differently? What do I want more of in my life? What do I want less of in my life?
Part of that IS the traditional New Year’s inspired goals of eating better and being more active, much of my aim for this year centers on simplifying, decluttering and spending time more mindfully. I don’t want to rush through the year wondering where the time went and not actually enjoying the year and making it count.
Early this spring, I shared a post about 8 Ways to Celebrate Yourself for ME Day. ME Day is a day dedicated to promoting the values of diversity, tolerance and freedom, as well as self-appreciation and importance of taking care of ourselves. But, I think it’s important to consider the basis of that day all year long and to take an extra close look at it as we kick off the new year. It’s not selfish to think about yourself. If you take care of yourself, then you are in a better position to be happy, healthy and ready to help others.
The items I included on that original list of 8 Ways to Celebrate Yourself, while originally intended as ways to celebrate that single day, are actually things that I want to try to do for myself throughout the year. Looking back on that list now I see that while I managed to make some of them part of my regular day-to-day life – others are still waiting. So, it’s time to revisit that list!
8 Way to Celebrate Yourself
Get Outside
While the outdoors aren’t for everyone, I personally feel recharged and exhilarated after spending time outdoors. Maybe it’s the vitamin D from the sun, or maybe it’s just the fresh air, but getting outside and taking a walk is helpful for more than just exercise. -This is one area that I enjoy regularly – and so does my dog, Toby, because he goes outside with me. While it’s a little tough during a Minnesota winter, we get out as often as the weather will allow.
Try Something New
Stimulate your mind by trying something new. Take a painting or cooking class or try a new type of exercise – maybe Zumba or Tai Chi. You just might find something new that you love to do and add some variety to your life. – I did manage to do this just last week! I headed to the local Y and took a daytime Line Dancing class. I had fun strutting my stuff with all the senior citizens who are regular participants.
Be Lazy
If you’re always on the go, give yourself a solid chunk of time to do NOTHING. Sit in a bubble bath until you get pruney, lay in bed reading trashy magazines, or sit on your porch watching the neighborhood or the squirrels running around on the lawn. Doing nothing lets your mind slow down and take a break from its usual hamster-wheel-style running. – I’m getting better at this. I have never been one to just sit and watch a TV show – I was always working or doing chores at the same time. This year I have made it a point to DVR my 2 or 3 favorite shows and a few times a week I will curl up on the TV with a big bowl of popcorn and do nothing but watch.
Phone a Friend
Staying close to friends is excellent for our mental and emotional well-being. Pick up the phone to chat with a friend you haven’t connected with in a while. Facebook messages and texting don’t count! Actually talk on the phone or, better yet, get together for coffee or dinner. – This is a work in progress for me. I have to stop using the “too busy” excuse. I’m happy to say I have done a few more small coffee meet-ups this year, but need to dedicate more time to it.
Treat Yourself
You deserve nice things! Treat yourself to something just for you – whether it be big or small. Buy a new pair of earrings, an outfit for the new season, or a book by your favorite author. – This is another one that is hard for me to reconcile with my thrifty side! But, I do like to treat myself from time to time – especially with really good dark chocolate.
Change Things Up
Making a change in your appearance can change your attitude. Color your hair or paint your nails a funky color. Try a fashion you have never thought about wearing – you just might love it! – I totally forgot about this one until I revisited the list. I am stuck in a rut! While I have gotten new clothes, of course, there is nothing that stands out. Hmmmm….what could I change this year?
Take Yourself on a Date
Do something that is usually considered a couples activity all by yourself. Go to the movies, play a round of mini golf, or go to a nice restaurant. Learn to enjoy your own company. – I was originally thinking that this is another one I have yet to conquer, but I do travel by myself quite a bit. When I do, I always take some time to explore and that definitely seems a bit like a fun date. (I need to improve my selfie skills for those times!)
Say “Aaaah” at the Spa
Book yourself some time at a spa. Whether you like a massage, a facial or something other spa specialty, relax and recharge with some pampering. If money is an issue, check daily deal sites for local offers (there are a LOT of them), or give yourself a spa day at home with face masques, bath salts and some scented candles to set the mood. – I always say, “I’m not a spa girl”, so I had originally put this one on the list for OTHER people and not for me. Should I give a spa another chance this year?
What plans do you have for the new year? Are you intent on taking care of yourself? I would love to hear your goals and ideas.
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Stacie @ Divine Lifestyle says
Thanks for sharing these ideas. I’m so guilty of never making time for myself. Like never.
Foodie. Wife. Life. says
These are great ideas, and as a mom of four I really want to be lazy sometimes… especially like right now. I’d like nothing more than to do nothing. Hahahaha! In 2016, more lazy me time preferably at a spa. 😉 I have a friend that wants to launch her own site this year, and I’ll totally share with her about domain.me, serendipitous this post.
Pam says
In 2016 I want to take some photography classes. I love photography and it really relaxes me. A cake decorating class would be fun too, I could take myself on a date to one of the cool cake classes offered in our area.
Kelly Hutchinson says
I am totally going to make 2016 count! I am going to finally lose this extra 75 pounds I have been dragging around for the past 10 years!
Liz Mays says
I’m loving your ideas. I do want to make sure to spend more time outside this year. It doesn’t get too cold here so it’s good to take advantage of that.
Marcie W. says
I have come to learn that taking care of myself makes me a better wife, mother and friend. In 2016 I hope to travel somewhere I have never been.
Seattle Travel Blogger says
This is an important post for the new year; it does seem to strive to take the pressure off of new year’s resolutions, but still stay on the topic of improvement.
Chasing Joy says
The Spa is always my favorite on lists like these. It is a true indulgance and for a short time I am focused only on me.
Lisa Joy Thompson says
I love to reflect on what I can do to be my best self in the upcoming year! I need to take some time for myself in the next few days! Maybe I’ll go get a massage or a pedicure! Thanks for the reminder to take care of myself!
Veronica says
I need to take time to do something nice for myself. thanks for the insoiration
Rosey says
You have solid ideas here. Getting outside always makes me feel rejevenated, so that one is my favorite.
katrina g says
we def need to take time away for ourselves sometimes. we do so much for others. great examples 🙂
Toni | BoulderLocavore says
“Get outside”. That’s one I really need to do more often. Working from home and spending a load of time daily at my computer leaves me lacking on just taking a little walk. I think I’m going to build that into my days. Our bulldog, who can’t go too far, would appreciate going along too.
Candy O says
Such great ideas! I am definitely doing more for me this year. I feel selfish but you know I won’t be. 😉